The best is yet to be discovered!

A 'pal' with a close friend just reminded me of a thought about relationships. Relationships, consider any mother-son, mother-father, brother-sister or any precious one you are blessed with. I believe, each one of them is absolutely as I say 'de novo': a single specimen of its kind in the universe. Why? because it's the two individuals who make em are unique and so their synergies. Try n put some rules developed from mock relations or so called 'replicas' that actually never exist, may be you work best with them, but you will miss the 'better than the best' simulations.

Experiment! as much as you want. Because, its then, slowly the relationship will dissolve in the original auras of two and will pour. It will fit in the mold -made for each other... or some may call it as per your destiny! n then you will realize the true sense. The real face of relationship is always beautiful. We, many a times or for that matter 'generally' make it so artificial. The thumb rule believe me is 'Never Compare' coz the best is yet to be discovered by you!

*This was a 'pal' discovered while a morning mind it, 'after-breakfast' walk.

Should I? or Should I not?

Decisions and decision making: tough job for many of us including me. I always use to think I am bad at decision making measured in terms of time and consequences. Although mainly ‘time’. But I recently learned something very different from what I believed. Sometimes or rather many a times, the process-timing in decision making actually fills the gaps through a deep thought process involved. You rationalise, you debate, you object, you actually discuss the matter with ‘yourSELF’ and here is the focus. Basically decision is generally all about convincing yourself on one side of the situation good enough to overcome the opportunity cost of the other side. So while this convincing is done, you actually clear out various facets and discovers a lot about yourself. Just wait for a moment after you have seriously taken a decision, critical enough, watch yourself and it will tell you many things. Every decision making process leads you towards maturity which is nothing but an art of handling diverse types of situations with ease. Another view to the decision making is about the ‘recency’ i.e how recent and genuine at the same time, you can be. Many people feel, the person who takes fast decisions is at a better-off position. May be at times, but, not always. Its all about the criticality of situation you are into. Consider a decision: to wear a dress in another’s wedding vs. in your wedding vs. a partner for your wedding. It also depends upon a person’s priorities.

Well, finally I believe while taking a decision ‘Be Yourself’… earlier you will be, more will be your decisions synchronised and appropriate. Because you know ACTUALLY what you are. Also, whenever you think you have taken a critical decision by yourself, give some moments ‘pal’ to them and you will see a better assimilation for the next time. As I always say, collection of such ‘pal’ leads to a healthy experience. Enjoy nurturing yourself nearer to self-actualisation every time you pick an opportunity to DECIDE.