Decisions and decision making: tough job for many of us including me. I always use to think I am bad at decision making measured in terms of time and consequences. Although mainly ‘time’. But I recently learned something very different from what I believed. Sometimes or rather many a times, the process-timing in decision making actually fills the gaps through a deep thought process involved. You rationalise, you debate, you object, you actually discuss the matter with ‘yourSELF’ and here is the focus. Basically decision is generally all about convincing yourself on one side of the situation good enough to overcome the opportunity cost of the other side. So while this convincing is done, you actually clear out various facets and discovers a lot about yourself. Just wait for a moment after you have seriously taken a decision, critical enough, watch yourself and it will tell you many things. Every decision making process leads you towards maturity which is nothing but an art of handling diverse types of situations with ease. Another view to the decision making is about the ‘recency’ i.e how recent and genuine at the same time, you can be. Many people feel, the person who takes fast decisions is at a better-off position. May be at times, but, not always. Its all about the criticality of situation you are into. Consider a decision: to wear a dress in another’s wedding vs. in your wedding vs. a partner for your wedding. It also depends upon a person’s priorities.
Well, finally I believe while taking a decision ‘Be Yourself’… earlier you will be, more will be your decisions synchronised and appropriate. Because you know ACTUALLY what you are. Also, whenever you think you have taken a critical decision by yourself, give some moments ‘pal’ to them and you will see a better assimilation for the next time. As I always say, collection of such ‘pal’ leads to a healthy experience. Enjoy nurturing yourself nearer to self-actualisation every time you pick an opportunity to DECIDE.
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